1. Communication with her, never close her out
2. Regard her as important
3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings
4. Be interested in her friends
5. Ask her opinion frequently
6. Value what she says
7. Let her feel your approval and affection
8. Protect her on daily basis
9. Be gentle and tender with her
10. Develop a sense of humour towards her
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussing and/or giving her time to adjust
12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
13. Comfort her when she is down emotionally, without lectures or put-downs.
14. Be interested in what she feel is important in life.
15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defences.
17. Make special time available to her and your children.
18. Be trustworthy.
19. Compliment her often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. Have specific family goals for each year.
22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
24. Show her you need her.
25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness.
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble.
27. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong, after you have comforted her.
29. Take time for the two of you to sit down and talk calmly.
30. Go on romantic outings.
31. Write a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
32. Surprise her with a card of flowers.
33. Express how much you appreciate her.
34. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
35. Tell her how proud you are of her.
36. Defend her to others.
37. Prefer her to others.
38. Do not expect her to do activities beyond her emotional or physical capabilities.
39. Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life.
40. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
41. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
42. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
43. Tell her about your job, if she is interested.
44. Take time to see how she spends her day at work or at home.
45. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
47. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
48. Let her take a bath while you do the dishes.
49. Understand her physical limitations.
50. Discipline the children in love, not in anger.
51. Help her finish her goal - hobbies or education, etc.
52. Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead – “Handle with care”
53. Get rid of habits that annoy her.
54. Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives.
55. Do not compare her relatives with yours in a negative way.
56. Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return.
57. Do not expect a bond to play whenever you help with the house cleaning.
58. Make sure she understands everything you are planning to do.
59. Do little things for her – an unexpected kiss, tea in bed, etc.
60. Treat her as an intellectual equal.
61. Find out if your physical treatment of her is what she desires.
62. Discover her fears in life.
63. See what you can do to eliminate her fears.
64. Discover her sexual needs.
65. Find out what makes her insecure.
66. Plan your future together.
67. Do not quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings.
68. Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring her tea, etc.
69. Ask if you offend her sexually in any way.
70. Ask if she is jealous of anyone.
71. Take her on dates now and then.
72. See if she is uncomfortable about the way money is spent.
73. Hold her hands in public.
74. Put your arms around her in front of friends.
75. Tell her you love her often.
76. Remember anniversaries, birthdays and other special occasions.
77. Learn to enjoy shopping with her.
78. Teach her any vocation or hobby you enjoy doing.
79. Give her special gift from time to time.
80. Share responsibilities around the house.
81. Do not belittle her feminine characteristics.
82. Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid of illogical.
83. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry.
84. Do not criticize her in front of others.
85. Do not let her see you become excited about her physical features of another woman if that bothers her.
86. Be sensitive to other people.
87. Let your family know you want to spend special time with them.
88. Fix dinner for her from time to time.
89. Take her for dinner and for weekend getaways.
90. By sympathetic when she is sick.
91. Call her when you are going to be late.
92. Do not disagree with in front of the children.
93. Do the little things she needs from time to time.
94. Give her special time to be alone or with her friends.
95. Buy what she considers an intimate gift.
96. Read a book she recommends to you.
97. Give her an engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love.
98. Wait for her to consent before a sexual relationship.
99. Write her a poem about how special she is.
100. Do everything in common – eat together, sleep together, bath together,
